Assalamualaikum Dear ICN Community,
Ramadan, the month of countless blessings and fasting, begins tonight, Friday night. As we enter this sacred time, I want to extend my heartfelt wishes to all of you. May we achieve what Allah expects from us and grow spiritually through our worship and devotion.
Beyond well wishes, I also want to share some practical ideas I plan to implement with my family. Perhaps they will inspire you as well. It is essential to remember that fasting was prescribed to help us become more mindful of Allah, refine our character, and contribute positively to our community. Keeping this in mind, our goal should not be to simply attend numerous activities, but rather to engage in meaningful actions that bring us closer to Allah and fulfill His expectations.
Each of us has different responsibilities, so the way we experience Ramadan will vary. While some may excel in certain areas, others may be ahead in different aspects of worship and service. The key is for each of us to set personal spiritual goals and strive to strengthen our relationship with Allah.
Ramadan is also a beautiful opportunity for couples to renew their commitment to each other. It is a time to grow closer as spouses, strengthening the bond of love and understanding while also deepening your connection with Allah. Engaging in acts of righteousness together—such as praying as a couple, reading the Qur’an, or supporting one another in acts of kindness—can enrich both the marriage and spiritual life. This shared journey fosters unity, patience, and gratitude, ultimately strengthening the family as a whole.
Additionally, I plan to organize weekly family activities centered around acts of kindness. This could include providing assistance to the vulnerable, praying together, reflecting on key Islamic principles, or even preparing meals for neighbors. Hosting an elderly person who lives alone can also be a beautiful gesture of care and compassion.
A valuable lesson for children during Ramadan is the practice of charity. Instead of giving on their behalf, we can encourage them to save and contribute their own sadaqah. A designated charity box in the home will help instill the habit of giving and teach them the importance of planning for charity each year. Another meaningful practice is performing an act of charity in honor of our parents. Teaching our children about this can inspire them to participate in meaningful ways—whether by donating, assisting in an initiative, or simply being aware of the concept. This not only strengthens family bonds but also instills in them the habit of doing good for their parents, even after their passing. By making this a family project, we create a culture of giving that extends beyond Ramadan.
Another simple yet impactful practice is learning and discussing one or two verses from the Qur’an as a family. We could also consider reducing the time spent on elaborate cooking by having a simpler meal once a week to remind ourselves of the essence of fasting.
At the start of Ramadan, we should talk to our children about the gifts they will receive on Eid, building excitement for the celebration after a month of dedication. Meanwhile, we should also use this time to reconnect with relatives we have not spoken to in a long time, forgive those who have wronged us, and purify our hearts.
Strengthening our sense of community is also vital. We can create a Ramadan spirit within our neighborhoods, take our families to the masjid, and if school schedules are demanding, plan at least one or two visits together each week. We should pray for our loved ones and ask them to pray for us as well.
It is also important to do something for ourselves during this blessed month. One practical way to complete the recitation of the entire Qur’an is by breaking it into small portions throughout the day. Reciting for just five to seven minutes after each prayer allows for steady progress without requiring a long, uninterrupted period of time. This method makes it easier to stay focused and engaged while ensuring completion of the Qur’an in a comfortable and manageable way.
Lastly, there are some deeds that should remain between us and Allah alone. Ramadan is about quality, not quantity. We should prioritize our well-being, get enough rest, and be mindful of our intentions. Let us also remember those in need—not just locally but worldwide—and pray for their safety and well-being.
I will keep you all in my prayers, and I ask you to keep me in yours. May Allah bless our community, guide us to righteousness, and make us a source of goodness for others.
Ramadan Mubarak!
Imam Ossama Bahloul